penkitten
Master Don Juan
we are having a luau (wedding reception) in two weeks and i am still trying to decide on what food to have .
any suggestions??
any suggestions??
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
thank you for the help.Bible_Belt said:Do you have your coconut shell bikini top yet?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
eww shark is so bitter.KarmaSutra said:Shark steaks. Sushi ( sashimi and nigori ). Most importantly top shelf liquor!
Have some good quality beer as well, Sam Adams, Amberbock . . .
It'll be appreciated more than the food.
Oh, my invite must be on the way to my mailbox hhmmm . . .
penkitten said:eww shark is so bitter.
the church has this little rule about no alcohol, so we have to wait until we get back to the hotel to have any beer haha
i didnt know you would be wanting to go....