"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LTRs and keeping game sharp.

JohnChops

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I know it's been said before, you never stop gaming even if you end up gaming your LTR. I understand that. However, should you be gaming other women with no outcome involved just to keep your game sharp? Do you guys think this is "wrong" or find it harmless play.

I was toying with this idea the other day. I still treat my girlfriend like I just met her, game her and she responds well, but in general, I want to keep other aspects of my game sharp I.E: kino, flirting, still getting random number closes etc.

Bad or good idea?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I know it's been said before, you never stop gaming even if you end up gaming your LTR. I understand that. However, should you be gaming other women with no outcome involved just to keep your game sharp? Do you guys think this is "wrong" or find it harmless play.

I was toying with this idea the other day. I still treat my girlfriend like I just met her, game her and she responds well, but in general, I want to keep other aspects of my game sharp I.E: kino, flirting, still getting random number closes etc.

Bad or good idea?
A little flirting sure. Getting numbers and closing? Not such a good idea, unless the idea is for your girlfriend to find out that you are gaming to cheat on her because that's what that would look like and I don't think that would bode well for you if she dumps you for trying to keep your game sharp in a dumb way.
 

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My game never changes too, went too far many times, it's your whole persona, you shouldn't change who you are or be confident and outgoing just to get girls, it should be who you are.
 

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TS, ain't doing it right.

Monogamy is fantasy. Not real life. It caters to women for accumulation of resources, security, and finding a cuck to raise her bastard rug rats.

You hit on everything on top form SMV. You smash or you next her. Then, go find more babes. pERIOD!

Leave ltr and feelers to women and small children.
 

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You don’t need game, if you have Frame. Game is 'built-in' aka automatic.:p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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