"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LTRs and keeping game sharp.

JohnChops

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I know it's been said before, you never stop gaming even if you end up gaming your LTR. I understand that. However, should you be gaming other women with no outcome involved just to keep your game sharp? Do you guys think this is "wrong" or find it harmless play.

I was toying with this idea the other day. I still treat my girlfriend like I just met her, game her and she responds well, but in general, I want to keep other aspects of my game sharp I.E: kino, flirting, still getting random number closes etc.

Bad or good idea?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know it's been said before, you never stop gaming even if you end up gaming your LTR. I understand that. However, should you be gaming other women with no outcome involved just to keep your game sharp? Do you guys think this is "wrong" or find it harmless play.

I was toying with this idea the other day. I still treat my girlfriend like I just met her, game her and she responds well, but in general, I want to keep other aspects of my game sharp I.E: kino, flirting, still getting random number closes etc.

Bad or good idea?
A little flirting sure. Getting numbers and closing? Not such a good idea, unless the idea is for your girlfriend to find out that you are gaming to cheat on her because that's what that would look like and I don't think that would bode well for you if she dumps you for trying to keep your game sharp in a dumb way.
 

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My game never changes too, went too far many times, it's your whole persona, you shouldn't change who you are or be confident and outgoing just to get girls, it should be who you are.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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TS, ain't doing it right.

Monogamy is fantasy. Not real life. It caters to women for accumulation of resources, security, and finding a cuck to raise her bastard rug rats.

You hit on everything on top form SMV. You smash or you next her. Then, go find more babes. pERIOD!

Leave ltr and feelers to women and small children.
 

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You don’t need game, if you have Frame. Game is 'built-in' aka automatic.:p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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