Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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LTRfear of intimacy

thezodiac

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wheres the don juan in being intimate, how do you be intimate, this is coming from a person with a fear of intimacy, i really dont know how, do i justreveal myslf more, for gods sakes its hard and im in a LTR, its killing me aah.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJuanMonk

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It's simple dude, you TALK more, don't be afraid of talking about yourself.
 

ScrewIt

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you are afraid of letting your intentions be known. who cares? just go for it, girls love a guy who speaks their mind. go for the kiss, hold her hands, grab her ass...
 
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