"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LTRfear of intimacy

thezodiac

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wheres the don juan in being intimate, how do you be intimate, this is coming from a person with a fear of intimacy, i really dont know how, do i justreveal myslf more, for gods sakes its hard and im in a LTR, its killing me aah.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJuanMonk

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It's simple dude, you TALK more, don't be afraid of talking about yourself.
 

ScrewIt

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you are afraid of letting your intentions be known. who cares? just go for it, girls love a guy who speaks their mind. go for the kiss, hold her hands, grab her ass...
 
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