"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LTRfear of intimacy

thezodiac

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wheres the don juan in being intimate, how do you be intimate, this is coming from a person with a fear of intimacy, i really dont know how, do i justreveal myslf more, for gods sakes its hard and im in a LTR, its killing me aah.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuanMonk

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It's simple dude, you TALK more, don't be afraid of talking about yourself.
 

ScrewIt

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you are afraid of letting your intentions be known. who cares? just go for it, girls love a guy who speaks their mind. go for the kiss, hold her hands, grab her ass...
 
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