wheres the don juan in being intimate, how do you be intimate, this is coming from a person with a fear of intimacy, i really dont know how, do i justreveal myslf more, for gods sakes its hard and im in a LTR, its killing me aah.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LTRfear of intimacy
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