I was recently chatting with a girl that a couple of years back had a crush on , but both of us were dating other people so nothing happened . The only thing that I remember is that I really liked her a lot because she seemed to be an amazing person
Recently we started chatting and things happened
at some point , she mentioned that she put her Instagram on dating apps so she can get more followers . I started laughing and told her that it is quite stupid what she did , as at maximum she will get a lot of low value men attention , which is quite irrelevant .
she started getting defensive and told me that I judge her in a bad way . I asked her what it would be the correct way to judge her . She did not respond and only got angry on me and told me that she Is disappointed in me as she really liked . I told her that I understand that she has insecurities and that everyone has them , but we should try not to let them be in charge of us . She gets pissed and leaves
thinking about this and other discussions like this with women , I realized that there is only one big test that matters the most . And that is to try to put her into her place early in the relationship and see how she responds to this .
people that are worthwhile will try to have a proper discussion ( as long as you do not look too judge mental ) without getting pissed , while the people that should avoid will go kaboom from the very first word if they feel criticized
imagine having a relationship with someone that you can not have a serious discussion with . It would be hell
Recently we started chatting and things happened
at some point , she mentioned that she put her Instagram on dating apps so she can get more followers . I started laughing and told her that it is quite stupid what she did , as at maximum she will get a lot of low value men attention , which is quite irrelevant .
she started getting defensive and told me that I judge her in a bad way . I asked her what it would be the correct way to judge her . She did not respond and only got angry on me and told me that she Is disappointed in me as she really liked . I told her that I understand that she has insecurities and that everyone has them , but we should try not to let them be in charge of us . She gets pissed and leaves
thinking about this and other discussions like this with women , I realized that there is only one big test that matters the most . And that is to try to put her into her place early in the relationship and see how she responds to this .
people that are worthwhile will try to have a proper discussion ( as long as you do not look too judge mental ) without getting pissed , while the people that should avoid will go kaboom from the very first word if they feel criticized
imagine having a relationship with someone that you can not have a serious discussion with . It would be hell