LTR put in limbo

[Leporello]

My gf and I both attend colleges that are very close to each other. And so, while we are at school, we can see each other often and have a normal relationship.

Over the summer, however, we live far enough apart that we can only see each other at most once every other week. To make up for it, she calls me almost every night.

Last night, though, my gf admitted that she was a little worried about how our relationship seems to be stagnating into nothing more than an exchange of trivialities each day. Not that we don't enjoy joking with each other and sharing amusing little anecdotes, but she seems to think a relationship ought to be more.

I think it's just a function of the physical seperation and the boredom of our everyday lives. After all, it's much easier to be emotionally (and physically) intimate when you're face to face. Besides, it's less than a month before we go back. Still, it worries her, and I don't want her IL to drop. . Any ideas?

 

[Zhen]

stop talking to her so much. drop a phone call maybe 2x a week. tell her the good stories when you get back together

 

[Black_Italian]

Either bulsh*t about your life being more interesting than it is OR make it more interesting than it is and dont talk to her so much for fu*ks sake. HAS ANYONE HERE EVER HEARD OF EXCLUSIVITY?

Ninja out

 

[Leporello]

Nu? and what should I do when she calls? Hang up on her? Gimme a break.

 

[brenbaus]

When she calls, just tell her you are busy with friends or something (and try and be busy with friends when you say this, or tell her you are tired or something0 , and you will call her back later, then dont call her for a couple days. I think your problem is that you are away from each other for the summer