"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LTR: Lack of sex

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I would NEVER settle for a relationship where I didn't get enough sex. Under no circumstances. If it meant losing everything I own, so be it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You need to make it known that sex is a crucial indgredient in a relationship. Lose predictability and remember that a relationship is built with communication and being open. If it's unable to be worked out, then you need to move on.
 
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lordson said:
yeah but what can you do if you love the girl? its an LTR. 2 years
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You don't ever let it get that far.

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You need to make it known that sex is a crucial indgredient in a relationship from day one and never let it be forgotten
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Even when things are terrible with women, all my LTR's have known I'm a sexual being and that they still have to put out even though they might hate me at the moment.
 
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lordson said:
this is my situation to the T.
hope that helps you understand theres nothing wrong with your relationship and all LTR's will descend to this eventually. Don't play any mind games with her by withholding sex so she wants it more, it won't work. I've tried everything mate, nothing works. Just get it when you can
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It feels good to read this, and to see I'm not really doing anything wrong. I think macavoy is right in a sort of way but it seems that then you will always stay alone.. if most of the relationships go that way after a while..

It is funny that all we read and do on this site is gaming chicks and try to get laid as much as we can, but when you want to settle with a girl everything starts to vanish slowly... even when you keep the up not being predictable and such.. in the end you end up having sex when your lucky...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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