"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LTR: Lack of sex

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I would NEVER settle for a relationship where I didn't get enough sex. Under no circumstances. If it meant losing everything I own, so be it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You need to make it known that sex is a crucial indgredient in a relationship. Lose predictability and remember that a relationship is built with communication and being open. If it's unable to be worked out, then you need to move on.
 
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lordson said:
yeah but what can you do if you love the girl? its an LTR. 2 years
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You don't ever let it get that far.

WORKEROUTER said:
You need to make it known that sex is a crucial indgredient in a relationship from day one and never let it be forgotten
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Even when things are terrible with women, all my LTR's have known I'm a sexual being and that they still have to put out even though they might hate me at the moment.
 
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lordson said:
this is my situation to the T.
hope that helps you understand theres nothing wrong with your relationship and all LTR's will descend to this eventually. Don't play any mind games with her by withholding sex so she wants it more, it won't work. I've tried everything mate, nothing works. Just get it when you can
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It feels good to read this, and to see I'm not really doing anything wrong. I think macavoy is right in a sort of way but it seems that then you will always stay alone.. if most of the relationships go that way after a while..

It is funny that all we read and do on this site is gaming chicks and try to get laid as much as we can, but when you want to settle with a girl everything starts to vanish slowly... even when you keep the up not being predictable and such.. in the end you end up having sex when your lucky...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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