"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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in a 6 month LTR with flexible giver. lately, told her her belly got bigger. she brang it up last night. told me it doenst make her feel as sexy as before that i told her that. she's tall and thick, but not fat. nice body actually but you know how women are. told her i did find her sexy but as her man, i gotta be honest...good or bad. told her i'm not gonna kiss her ass like these other guys and i dont apologize for being honest but sorry if she's sad about it. told me she wishes i didnt put too much importance on the looks, cause i often make comments on fat women. i guess it keeps her on her toes...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the trouble is, you need to tell them these things in indirect way. if you tell them directly, you will lower their self esteem and guess what they do when their self esteem is low???? they eat!

By indirect, i mean telling her something like "don't you just hate it when you see some women out and about who clearly have a belly but wear short tops and their belly hangs out???"

you are definately keeping her on her toes, but be careful, you dont want to push her over the edge.
 
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For a woman, "thick" is merely a prelude to "fatness"!! 98% of the women in the US are fat - good luck finding a "slimmy'!!
 
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