"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Testiculz

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in a 6 month LTR with flexible giver. lately, told her her belly got bigger. she brang it up last night. told me it doenst make her feel as sexy as before that i told her that. she's tall and thick, but not fat. nice body actually but you know how women are. told her i did find her sexy but as her man, i gotta be honest...good or bad. told her i'm not gonna kiss her ass like these other guys and i dont apologize for being honest but sorry if she's sad about it. told me she wishes i didnt put too much importance on the looks, cause i often make comments on fat women. i guess it keeps her on her toes...
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the trouble is, you need to tell them these things in indirect way. if you tell them directly, you will lower their self esteem and guess what they do when their self esteem is low???? they eat!

By indirect, i mean telling her something like "don't you just hate it when you see some women out and about who clearly have a belly but wear short tops and their belly hangs out???"

you are definately keeping her on her toes, but be careful, you dont want to push her over the edge.
 
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For a woman, "thick" is merely a prelude to "fatness"!! 98% of the women in the US are fat - good luck finding a "slimmy'!!
 
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