"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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in a 6 month LTR with flexible giver. lately, told her her belly got bigger. she brang it up last night. told me it doenst make her feel as sexy as before that i told her that. she's tall and thick, but not fat. nice body actually but you know how women are. told her i did find her sexy but as her man, i gotta be honest...good or bad. told her i'm not gonna kiss her ass like these other guys and i dont apologize for being honest but sorry if she's sad about it. told me she wishes i didnt put too much importance on the looks, cause i often make comments on fat women. i guess it keeps her on her toes...
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the trouble is, you need to tell them these things in indirect way. if you tell them directly, you will lower their self esteem and guess what they do when their self esteem is low???? they eat!

By indirect, i mean telling her something like "don't you just hate it when you see some women out and about who clearly have a belly but wear short tops and their belly hangs out???"

you are definately keeping her on her toes, but be careful, you dont want to push her over the edge.
 
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For a woman, "thick" is merely a prelude to "fatness"!! 98% of the women in the US are fat - good luck finding a "slimmy'!!
 
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