"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LTR faded don juan .boost???

J-Bone

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It got where getting girls was all too easy and even doing crazy **** just seemed to come and it was no fun so i found the one i wanted to have that was perfect for me and alot like me. i dated 62 girls in three months to find her and dumped most of em right there during the first date. yeh so i started spoiling on my game some since i got engaged now its time for me to strike back and take the mans seat. lets see its getting where shes getting the upper hand, shes learning my methods and always seems to be able to get behind them and hit my weak spots. so before i become pussified and get bad oneitis I need some pointerSS maybe from some experienced DJ's. could neone maybe gimme some keep your throne advice on ltr's and perhaps just remind me a little of what a dj is i know its in the forums but im at work and i dont have much time for searching but i know theres many great dj's in here who helped me get the ability to get any girl i so desired and go for the one who was too amazing to talk to. so please talk to me a little bit and help me get out of my rut.
with many big thanks, J-bone
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Instead of linking you to some long thread or copy & psting somethign from psych books attack this, and every relationships with this simple principal, "he who cares least controls the relationship".
 

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if you really look at it,just say what you feel,be what you feel like being.Don't rely on tricks and gimmicks.A woman can spot bull a mile away.Just rely on exactly who you are and what you want.Women admire and are in awe of a man who's not afraid to be a man.
 

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ok so you were talkina bout relationships and trying to control the relationships. you said control is based off insecurity. i need a bit of advice and i know with it comes criticism but i need to get back from where i was the man who ruled whether she **** or not. cause i've became the man who ask her to **** or not. i need to rid my insecurity andf i need to know is it ok to check on her without her knowing "just to see" or just for a little bit of relief and what are some other ways i can tell if shes lying without being all in her face and exposing my jealous insecurity because i'm trying to just be what i want and let her be what shje wants like it used to be when she followed me like a lost puppy not because i want control but because i want the love and respect and trust we once had. some of the things are her her her but looking on in some are me too please help me out. thanks
 

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Engaged at 19?? Have fun......
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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