"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LTR faded don juan .boost???

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It got where getting girls was all too easy and even doing crazy **** just seemed to come and it was no fun so i found the one i wanted to have that was perfect for me and alot like me. i dated 62 girls in three months to find her and dumped most of em right there during the first date. yeh so i started spoiling on my game some since i got engaged now its time for me to strike back and take the mans seat. lets see its getting where shes getting the upper hand, shes learning my methods and always seems to be able to get behind them and hit my weak spots. so before i become pussified and get bad oneitis I need some pointerSS maybe from some experienced DJ's. could neone maybe gimme some keep your throne advice on ltr's and perhaps just remind me a little of what a dj is i know its in the forums but im at work and i dont have much time for searching but i know theres many great dj's in here who helped me get the ability to get any girl i so desired and go for the one who was too amazing to talk to. so please talk to me a little bit and help me get out of my rut.
with many big thanks, J-bone
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Instead of linking you to some long thread or copy & psting somethign from psych books attack this, and every relationships with this simple principal, "he who cares least controls the relationship".
 

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if you really look at it,just say what you feel,be what you feel like being.Don't rely on tricks and gimmicks.A woman can spot bull a mile away.Just rely on exactly who you are and what you want.Women admire and are in awe of a man who's not afraid to be a man.
 

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ok so you were talkina bout relationships and trying to control the relationships. you said control is based off insecurity. i need a bit of advice and i know with it comes criticism but i need to get back from where i was the man who ruled whether she **** or not. cause i've became the man who ask her to **** or not. i need to rid my insecurity andf i need to know is it ok to check on her without her knowing "just to see" or just for a little bit of relief and what are some other ways i can tell if shes lying without being all in her face and exposing my jealous insecurity because i'm trying to just be what i want and let her be what shje wants like it used to be when she followed me like a lost puppy not because i want control but because i want the love and respect and trust we once had. some of the things are her her her but looking on in some are me too please help me out. thanks
 

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Engaged at 19?? Have fun......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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