"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LTR faded don juan .boost???

J-Bone

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It got where getting girls was all too easy and even doing crazy **** just seemed to come and it was no fun so i found the one i wanted to have that was perfect for me and alot like me. i dated 62 girls in three months to find her and dumped most of em right there during the first date. yeh so i started spoiling on my game some since i got engaged now its time for me to strike back and take the mans seat. lets see its getting where shes getting the upper hand, shes learning my methods and always seems to be able to get behind them and hit my weak spots. so before i become pussified and get bad oneitis I need some pointerSS maybe from some experienced DJ's. could neone maybe gimme some keep your throne advice on ltr's and perhaps just remind me a little of what a dj is i know its in the forums but im at work and i dont have much time for searching but i know theres many great dj's in here who helped me get the ability to get any girl i so desired and go for the one who was too amazing to talk to. so please talk to me a little bit and help me get out of my rut.
with many big thanks, J-bone
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Instead of linking you to some long thread or copy & psting somethign from psych books attack this, and every relationships with this simple principal, "he who cares least controls the relationship".
 

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if you really look at it,just say what you feel,be what you feel like being.Don't rely on tricks and gimmicks.A woman can spot bull a mile away.Just rely on exactly who you are and what you want.Women admire and are in awe of a man who's not afraid to be a man.
 

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ok so you were talkina bout relationships and trying to control the relationships. you said control is based off insecurity. i need a bit of advice and i know with it comes criticism but i need to get back from where i was the man who ruled whether she **** or not. cause i've became the man who ask her to **** or not. i need to rid my insecurity andf i need to know is it ok to check on her without her knowing "just to see" or just for a little bit of relief and what are some other ways i can tell if shes lying without being all in her face and exposing my jealous insecurity because i'm trying to just be what i want and let her be what shje wants like it used to be when she followed me like a lost puppy not because i want control but because i want the love and respect and trust we once had. some of the things are her her her but looking on in some are me too please help me out. thanks
 

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Engaged at 19?? Have fun......
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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