Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
There are two broad categories of men in this place. There are the relationship-minded guys and the "I just want to get laid" guys. Of course it is more complex than that, but for the sake of simplicity in this thread, this dichotomy works.
I've come to realize that many men are completely unaware that a relationship with a woman is his opportunity to mold and shape her into the woman she has the potential to be. We often think she is what she is when we first meet her. But in fact, if she is made of good raw material, we can gradually shape her into the Red Pill way of understanding life.
Many women half-heartedly show feminist leanings in their speech, but are only doing it because they cannot think for themselves and they have never met a man who has the strength and brains to guide her. Women are afraid of being ostracized from the herd, so they had better toe the line and say the things they think they're supposed to say.
When a man of strength comes along, much like your humble host of this thread, she is able to drop that charade and conform herself to the expectations of that man. For a marriage-minded man, the LTR should consist of his molding her to conform to his leadership. He does this by planting ideas that she will later think about.
If you're an authentic man, she will be eager to please and to live up to your expectations. But she needs to learn what those expectations are. Covert communication is key in teaching women. That's the only language they are truly open to. At least we can say that it is easier to convince a woman of something covertly than directly. Direct verbal instruction is often received as "Daddy Discipline" and that certainly has its place. But to normalize and heal a woman of our current societal maladies, covert means must be employed.
This is best accomplished by verbally "musing" about life. You might be together in a quiet place, and you start to muse about life and about relationships. To her, this is received as you revealing who you really are in an unguarded moment, but to you, you sly dog, it is conveyed to accomplish a purpose. Your purpose.
Example:
"You know, I've been thinking about relationships [she will now be on full alert]. I see so many women being disrespectful to their boyfriends or husbands, yet this is the same man who would take a bullet for her and lives to protect her. Yet these days she is offended at the thought of taking care of him in daily practical ways. Isn't that sad?"
This is just a quick example, but you can see that in doing this you got her full attention right off the bat, you created a visual picture for her (a man shielding a woman from harm), and implied that it's shameful that some women feel it's beneath them to take care of the house and their man.
Everybody is different and must word things according to their own personality, but I think I've conveyed the general idea. Covert instruction and boundary-setting is effective and permanent.
Along the same lines, here's how to get a woman to fall madly in love with you:
In another "musing" session, tell her that you've noticed that women always fall in love when they are apart from the man, not when they are together. She quietly ponders him in her heart and comes to realize why she loves him. That just seems to be the way it works..." Most women have never considered this. By stating it covertly and "innocently", you've just lubricated the gears of love and she will completely reinterpret her thoughts about you, in a positive sense. "I must be falling in love with him..."
Use covert communication to your advantage. Women are extremely malleable. Just look at their destruction from the media. You can undo most of that because she wants a man who she can look up to and who will guide her.
Covert comms gets the job done, men. Women are water, and you are the container that defines their shape in your kingdom. She is looking for clues about your expectations. She will fully understand if you communicate them covertly, and enforce them ruthlessly overtly.
I've come to realize that many men are completely unaware that a relationship with a woman is his opportunity to mold and shape her into the woman she has the potential to be. We often think she is what she is when we first meet her. But in fact, if she is made of good raw material, we can gradually shape her into the Red Pill way of understanding life.
Many women half-heartedly show feminist leanings in their speech, but are only doing it because they cannot think for themselves and they have never met a man who has the strength and brains to guide her. Women are afraid of being ostracized from the herd, so they had better toe the line and say the things they think they're supposed to say.
When a man of strength comes along, much like your humble host of this thread, she is able to drop that charade and conform herself to the expectations of that man. For a marriage-minded man, the LTR should consist of his molding her to conform to his leadership. He does this by planting ideas that she will later think about.
If you're an authentic man, she will be eager to please and to live up to your expectations. But she needs to learn what those expectations are. Covert communication is key in teaching women. That's the only language they are truly open to. At least we can say that it is easier to convince a woman of something covertly than directly. Direct verbal instruction is often received as "Daddy Discipline" and that certainly has its place. But to normalize and heal a woman of our current societal maladies, covert means must be employed.
This is best accomplished by verbally "musing" about life. You might be together in a quiet place, and you start to muse about life and about relationships. To her, this is received as you revealing who you really are in an unguarded moment, but to you, you sly dog, it is conveyed to accomplish a purpose. Your purpose.
Example:
"You know, I've been thinking about relationships [she will now be on full alert]. I see so many women being disrespectful to their boyfriends or husbands, yet this is the same man who would take a bullet for her and lives to protect her. Yet these days she is offended at the thought of taking care of him in daily practical ways. Isn't that sad?"
This is just a quick example, but you can see that in doing this you got her full attention right off the bat, you created a visual picture for her (a man shielding a woman from harm), and implied that it's shameful that some women feel it's beneath them to take care of the house and their man.
Everybody is different and must word things according to their own personality, but I think I've conveyed the general idea. Covert instruction and boundary-setting is effective and permanent.
Along the same lines, here's how to get a woman to fall madly in love with you:
In another "musing" session, tell her that you've noticed that women always fall in love when they are apart from the man, not when they are together. She quietly ponders him in her heart and comes to realize why she loves him. That just seems to be the way it works..." Most women have never considered this. By stating it covertly and "innocently", you've just lubricated the gears of love and she will completely reinterpret her thoughts about you, in a positive sense. "I must be falling in love with him..."
Use covert communication to your advantage. Women are extremely malleable. Just look at their destruction from the media. You can undo most of that because she wants a man who she can look up to and who will guide her.
Covert comms gets the job done, men. Women are water, and you are the container that defines their shape in your kingdom. She is looking for clues about your expectations. She will fully understand if you communicate them covertly, and enforce them ruthlessly overtly.