"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lower body fat, or gain muscle mass

naluholo

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I've been out of the gym for too long. I'm 6'1" and 180 lbs. and wanting to get back into shape. Should I concentrate on losing body fat first, then gain the muscle mass, or should I gain mass then drop the fat (not that there's a whole lot)? Or do both at the same time?

Thanks in advance for the advice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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italostud

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Depends on what your BF% is and what your goals are.
 

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Get a cardio routine going and slowly add weight training. If you're nutrition is in order you'll gain muscle and lose fat at the same time.
 

italostud

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"Damn" can mean a lot of things. I'm assuming you mean from girls. 17% is a little high. You probably can't see your abs. If you want, you can drop down to 170lbs or so. That should give you a good amount of vascularity. The girls will like this. If I were you however, I'd hit the weights hard, eat, and bulk up to 230lbs or so. Then spend even more time getting shredded down to like 210lbs or something. Again it's totally up to you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you're not used to working out, then you have to lose the bodyfat first. Your body is geared to storing calories in fat, not muscle. If you 'bulk up' you'll probably end up putting on more fat than muscle. So cut it first. Cardio at least three times a week, lift three times a week, eat all day long but no more than 12x your body weight in calories. Maybe find a workout program with specifics.
 
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