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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Lower back pain

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Yo guys, I have been having some lower back pain recently. The best way I can describe it is if I am doing leg lifts (the ab workout where you lie on the ground and lift your legs), if I lift my legs far enough that my whole butt is off the ground, then I start feeling pain in my lower back. Could this be caused by working the upper body too much and not working lower body enough?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

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leg lifts can wreck your lower back..

so you have 2 options...

1. start doing deadlifts/good mornings to strengthen your lower back.

2. start doing hanging leg raises to hit your lower abs.. it works them much better than leg lifts anyway.

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