greatsnake
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What happens when a chick doesn’t see her boyfriend as a high value male?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Low value male
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
He should dump her.
greatsnake
Master Don Juan
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What are the signs that she doesn’t see him as a high value male?
Women don’t really know what a low value or high value male is. I’ve known many women that mistook me for low value because they viewed me as a “good guy (not nice guy!)”, only to dump me and a week later I’m with someone else prettier than them. Then they regret their decision. I’m deceptive how I present myself because I love **** testing women the same way they **** test me. Just because I’m in high demand I don’t run around shouting it to everyone, I just keep it in the back of my mind that when I get dumped I go ghost like they’ve never seen and have replaced them in no time. Sound like a low value man to you?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Watch how she treats other people. Most of the time its how we treat OURSELVES. If we dont allow certain bullshyt positions we will never be in a "low value" position. Who cares what she thinks. Never allow someone to devalue you.
The other way youll know is your energy will fade around her. For some reason your confidence will shrink.
Be around babes who value you. Who your mindstate accelerates, who your confidence rise around, who your cawk and balls hang more fully around.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
backseatjuan
Banned
She'd be taking him for granted, will not submit, low value man for her is easily replaceable.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I found this list. It says "wife" but its the same. Basically they are ungrateful and they dont value your time.
If you put up with it it means you dont respect yourself and you dont value your time.