"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whether you have been jackin' yourself silly, or eating too much fat, lack of testosterone decreases confidence, reduces your mental abilities, makes you feel like less of a man, depressed, etc. I have found a solution:

CAFFEINE

If I drink more caffeine than my usual intake, I feel even hornier than usual (not necessarily good)...but it feels like a testosterone rush, with confidence and looseness, as well as mental abilities being back. Use sparingly, though, and try not to have caffeine that often.

Long term, eat meat, EXERCISE, and possibly take that herbal supplement.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Exercising lowers your testosterone.
Jerking off has no effect on your testosterone.

Get your f*ckin' facts straight, you stupid f*ckin' idiot. The stupidest sh*t wrote on this board is the word testosterone attached to it. Pick up a f*ckin' anatomy book you stupid f*ckers.
 

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yea, dont use caffiene to increase test levels. Also, eating MORE fat INCREASES testosterone. i would just say lift weights, the heavier the weight the better
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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John_Galt said:
Jerking off has no effect on your testosterone.
Survey says: YOU'RE WRONG.

Ejaculating too frequently lowers testosterone levels. With every ejaculation, testosterone is burned into DHT. Ejaculate frequently enough, and your rate of testosterone-DHT conversion with exceed your rate of testosterone production, thus creating a defecit. This is analagous to writing checks in amounts that exceed what's in your bank account.
 

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Survey says: YOU'RE WRONG.

Ejaculating too frequently lowers testosterone levels. With every ejaculation, testosterone is burned into DHT. Ejaculate frequently enough, and your rate of testosterone-DHT conversion with exceed your rate of testosterone production, thus creating a defecit. This is analagous to writing checks in amounts that exceed what's in your bank account.
Maybe you could back that up with a thing called a STUDY! I've posted studies in past threads on this subject that there is no change.

i would just say lift weights, the heavier the weight the better
Weights lower testosterone.
 

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John_Galt said:
Weights lower testosterone.
You're disagreeing all the scientists, exercise experts, personal trainers weight lifters, bodybuilders and power lifters in the world.
Doing weights does raise your testosterone. Was that just a typo or something?


And guys, one word.... PORN
 

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You're disagreeing all the scientists, exercise experts, personal trainers weight lifters, bodybuilders and power lifters in the world.
Lifting weights lowers your testosterone. What the hell do you think your body uses when you're lifting those weights? Pick up an anatomy book.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ofcourse, but it drops and it's down until you go back to sleep. Most people around here would have you believe that your best time to get women is after you workout, which is when your testosterone is the lowest.
 

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MuayThai said:
You're disagreeing all the scientists, exercise experts, personal trainers weight lifters, bodybuilders and power lifters in the world.
Doing weights does raise your testosterone. Was that just a typo or something?


And guys, one word.... PORN

Wow...just...wow.

That is the most absurd post I think I've ever read on a message board. Every word of it.
 

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John_Galt said:
Ofcourse, but it drops and it's down until you go back to sleep. Most people around here would have you believe that your best time to get women is after you workout, which is when your testosterone is the lowest.

Why do you need testosterone to sarge?

After the gym is great for picking-up because you feel GOOD!
 

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I don't think you need testosterone.

The idiots on this board like to throw around terms like testosterone, to make their bullsh*t philosophies sound more alpha. You don't need testosterone.
 

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John_Galt said:
I don't think you need testosterone.

The idiots on this board like to throw around terms like testosterone, to make their bullsh*t philosophies sound more alpha. You don't need testosterone.
Finally someone else says this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A 2001 study[2] examined the effect of a 3-week period of sexual abstinence followed by masturbation-induced orgasm. It found that abstinence over such periods "does not change the neuroendocrine response to orgasm but does produce elevated levels of testosterone in males."

A 2003 study[3] showed that serum testosterone levels reach a peak seven days after abstaining from ejaculation.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Testosterone#_note-1
 

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I like this one from Exton et al. 61 (3): 280

The present study revealed small increases in testosterone and LH after masturbation-induced orgasm. This neuroendocrine pattern is also similar to the response found in men using the current methodology, although the effects did not reach statistical significance (30). Sexual arousal–induced increases in testosterone

This is my favorite explanation.

I want to start working out to build muscle mass.
Some of my friends say masturbation will increase testosterone, but others say it will decrease testosterone. What effect will masturbation have?

Masturbation is very unlikely to decrease testosterone levels. Semen is not the source of testosterone, and ejaculation will not cause testosterone levels to go down.

All other things being equal, increased sexual activity -- including masturbation -- tends to increase testosterone levels. But these levels depend upon many factors including age, time of day, overall level of physical activity, and general health. Psychological factors can cause changes in testosterone levels: levels go up in men who believe they are going to become more sexually active, levels can be affected by whether a person knows in advance that he will be test for testosterone, and so forth.

In your case, the increase in physical activity accompanying your workouts will probably have a much greater effect on your testosterone levels. If you are a young male AND working out, your testosterone level is likely to be so high that any difference masturbation (or other sexual activity) might make will be insignificant.
 

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Why's everyone always going on about testosterone!?

There is almost certainly nothing wrong with your testosterone! If there is you would know about it and need to see a doctor.
 
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If you want to know the effects of testosterone, see Pook's post 'Secret of the Jerk'

Or, look it up at encyclopedia.com
 

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I've read Pook's explanations on testosterone, and it's about the only part I disagree with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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