"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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brian123

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I've been speaking with this chick for a while (she was out of town). Anyways, she sent me a bunch of singles, we've hung out 1 on 1 a few times before. Lately, she's been sending me txt's saying "Hey xxx is tonight, are you going?"

Today I said that i was in the mood for Italian food (be both like it) and I asked if she was in the mood for it too. She pretty much immediately asked who else was going and if it was cool to get a group of people together to go, and that something else, like even getting coffee with people would be cool too.

A girl turning down a 1:1 dinner to a nicer restaurant, is this a sign of low interest?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yea, I think i was FZ'd as well.

Got alot of signals that she liked me ie always catching her glancing at me, our mutual friends seemed to be pretty sure she liked me (not that she mentioned it to anyone) and I got other "go signals" as well.

Then again, I get signals like this....
 
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Not a good sign. Did you kino escalate during your previous one-on-ones? From what you wrote, that you "got a lot of signals" and "caught her glancing at you" it appears you haven't kissed her? If you didn't escalate effectively, then being too slow to make a move could have left you in the friend zone.
 
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JJMcLure said:
Not a good sign. Did you kino escalate during your previous one-on-ones? From what you wrote, that you "got a lot of signals" and "caught her glancing at you" it appears you haven't kissed her? If you didn't escalate effectively, then being too slow to make a move could have left you in the friend zone.
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No Kino at all. Very tough since she is pretty religious. I only hung out with her 1:1 once before really. Most girls I will use some Kino, but let's face it. Kissing to religious girls can be considered equivalent to "going all the way" for regular girls, so it can be tough. I will kino with "regular girls"

My cousin is getting married (she is going to the wedding tomorrow with her girlfriend, they are both single) and I am the best man at the wedding and will be looking pretty sharp in my tux. Any special advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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