"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been speaking with this chick for a while (she was out of town). Anyways, she sent me a bunch of singles, we've hung out 1 on 1 a few times before. Lately, she's been sending me txt's saying "Hey xxx is tonight, are you going?"

Today I said that i was in the mood for Italian food (be both like it) and I asked if she was in the mood for it too. She pretty much immediately asked who else was going and if it was cool to get a group of people together to go, and that something else, like even getting coffee with people would be cool too.

A girl turning down a 1:1 dinner to a nicer restaurant, is this a sign of low interest?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yea, I think i was FZ'd as well.

Got alot of signals that she liked me ie always catching her glancing at me, our mutual friends seemed to be pretty sure she liked me (not that she mentioned it to anyone) and I got other "go signals" as well.

Then again, I get signals like this....
 
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Not a good sign. Did you kino escalate during your previous one-on-ones? From what you wrote, that you "got a lot of signals" and "caught her glancing at you" it appears you haven't kissed her? If you didn't escalate effectively, then being too slow to make a move could have left you in the friend zone.
 
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JJMcLure said:
Not a good sign. Did you kino escalate during your previous one-on-ones? From what you wrote, that you "got a lot of signals" and "caught her glancing at you" it appears you haven't kissed her? If you didn't escalate effectively, then being too slow to make a move could have left you in the friend zone.
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No Kino at all. Very tough since she is pretty religious. I only hung out with her 1:1 once before really. Most girls I will use some Kino, but let's face it. Kissing to religious girls can be considered equivalent to "going all the way" for regular girls, so it can be tough. I will kino with "regular girls"

My cousin is getting married (she is going to the wedding tomorrow with her girlfriend, they are both single) and I am the best man at the wedding and will be looking pretty sharp in my tux. Any special advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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