You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
carrot said:Do you know your girl in love for you or your money
All a part of my plan.Bible_Belt said:The only way to know is to have no money.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Woman that love a poor broke man are usually unkempt settlers that aren't good looking themselves and then find a man that is in their looks/talent bracket and go to work on them making them theirs.Kal_Luke said:Could you love a woman who didn't have money? If the answer is yes then so could they. If you are a person with money then that's just something like having brown hair or blue eyes. I'm broke but women have loved me
I find that terribly offensive. Not all of us have to crap diamonds to get hot girls in to bed or win their heartsZodiac said:Woman that love a poor broke man are usually unkempt settlers that aren't good looking themselves and then find a man that is in their looks/talent bracket and go to work on them making them theirs.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dear VU,Victory Unlimited said:Hey, here's a test you can use the next time you're with her:
Without warning------whip out your DYCK and whip out your DOLLARS at the same time...and whichever one she reaches for FIRST is the one she loves the MOST.:yes:
Just kidding...(or AM I?)
VU
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Singles or hundos? This requires experimenting...Victory Unlimited said:Hey, here's a test you can use the next time you're with her:
Without warning------whip out your DYCK and whip out your DOLLARS at the same time...and whichever one she reaches for FIRST is the one she loves the MOST.:yes:
Just kidding...(or AM I?)
VU
How many homeless/poor/unemployed game throwers do you see with a 9/10? The women they can get are usually the larger and in charge types.Kal_Luke said:I find that terribly offensive. Not all of us have to crap diamonds to get hot girls in to bed or win their hearts
How do you dress? How do you look? How much confidence do you exude?Robert28 said:what about us guys that have money and still are having crappy luck with women?lol
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.