Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
carrot said:Do you know your girl in love for you or your money
All a part of my plan.Bible_Belt said:The only way to know is to have no money.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Woman that love a poor broke man are usually unkempt settlers that aren't good looking themselves and then find a man that is in their looks/talent bracket and go to work on them making them theirs.Kal_Luke said:Could you love a woman who didn't have money? If the answer is yes then so could they. If you are a person with money then that's just something like having brown hair or blue eyes. I'm broke but women have loved me
I find that terribly offensive. Not all of us have to crap diamonds to get hot girls in to bed or win their heartsZodiac said:Woman that love a poor broke man are usually unkempt settlers that aren't good looking themselves and then find a man that is in their looks/talent bracket and go to work on them making them theirs.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dear VU,Victory Unlimited said:Hey, here's a test you can use the next time you're with her:
Without warning------whip out your DYCK and whip out your DOLLARS at the same time...and whichever one she reaches for FIRST is the one she loves the MOST.:yes:
Just kidding...(or AM I?)
VU
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Singles or hundos? This requires experimenting...Victory Unlimited said:Hey, here's a test you can use the next time you're with her:
Without warning------whip out your DYCK and whip out your DOLLARS at the same time...and whichever one she reaches for FIRST is the one she loves the MOST.:yes:
Just kidding...(or AM I?)
VU
How many homeless/poor/unemployed game throwers do you see with a 9/10? The women they can get are usually the larger and in charge types.Kal_Luke said:I find that terribly offensive. Not all of us have to crap diamonds to get hot girls in to bed or win their hearts
How do you dress? How do you look? How much confidence do you exude?Robert28 said:what about us guys that have money and still are having crappy luck with women?lol
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.