If there's one current trend that irks me to no end it's the number of women who want men to accept sub par attitude, behavior, appearance, etc. because men should "accept and love women for who they are." Such an obnoxious double standard, especially when you consider that most men admit to being focused on sex the overwhelming majority of the time and yet such a focus has consistently been chastised or derogated or persecuted.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
"Love Me For Who I Am" Nonsense
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dustmuffin
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Just ignore it and **** them. Why get caught up in drama. I don't think the double standards will change. You have to use the bs to your advantage.
Floydispink01
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If a woman sends you a bitchy text or demonstrates bad behavior.
Simply text her -
'zzzzzzzzz.'
.....and walk away.
Simply text her -
'zzzzzzzzz.'
.....and walk away.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RangerMIke
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All women do this, just ignore, keep doing what you are doing and never take serious what women say about themselves and relationships. The reason is that most women have no real idea what they respond to. They understand men MUCH better then they understand themselves.
logicallefty
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LMFAO!! ^^THAT is great!!!
SgtSplacker
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Like Dustmuffin said "You have to use the bs to your advantage." she tells you that and you say "ok awesome take me for who I am also." Now this girl never has the right to ask you to change anything about yourself. Keep your guys nights out on lock. Keep having female friends around. Great