If there's one current trend that irks me to no end it's the number of women who want men to accept sub par attitude, behavior, appearance, etc. because men should "accept and love women for who they are." Such an obnoxious double standard, especially when you consider that most men admit to being focused on sex the overwhelming majority of the time and yet such a focus has consistently been chastised or derogated or persecuted.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"Love Me For Who I Am" Nonsense
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dustmuffin
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Just ignore it and **** them. Why get caught up in drama. I don't think the double standards will change. You have to use the bs to your advantage.
Floydispink01
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If a woman sends you a bitchy text or demonstrates bad behavior.
Simply text her -
'zzzzzzzzz.'
.....and walk away.
Simply text her -
'zzzzzzzzz.'
.....and walk away.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RangerMIke
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All women do this, just ignore, keep doing what you are doing and never take serious what women say about themselves and relationships. The reason is that most women have no real idea what they respond to. They understand men MUCH better then they understand themselves.
logicallefty
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LMFAO!! ^^THAT is great!!!
SgtSplacker
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Like Dustmuffin said "You have to use the bs to your advantage." she tells you that and you say "ok awesome take me for who I am also." Now this girl never has the right to ask you to change anything about yourself. Keep your guys nights out on lock. Keep having female friends around. Great