If there's one current trend that irks me to no end it's the number of women who want men to accept sub par attitude, behavior, appearance, etc. because men should "accept and love women for who they are." Such an obnoxious double standard, especially when you consider that most men admit to being focused on sex the overwhelming majority of the time and yet such a focus has consistently been chastised or derogated or persecuted.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
"Love Me For Who I Am" Nonsense
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
dustmuffin
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Just ignore it and **** them. Why get caught up in drama. I don't think the double standards will change. You have to use the bs to your advantage.
Floydispink01
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If a woman sends you a bitchy text or demonstrates bad behavior.
Simply text her -
'zzzzzzzzz.'
.....and walk away.
Simply text her -
'zzzzzzzzz.'
.....and walk away.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
RangerMIke
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All women do this, just ignore, keep doing what you are doing and never take serious what women say about themselves and relationships. The reason is that most women have no real idea what they respond to. They understand men MUCH better then they understand themselves.
logicallefty
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LMFAO!! ^^THAT is great!!!
SgtSplacker
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Like Dustmuffin said "You have to use the bs to your advantage." she tells you that and you say "ok awesome take me for who I am also." Now this girl never has the right to ask you to change anything about yourself. Keep your guys nights out on lock. Keep having female friends around. Great