"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Love is Just a Chemical Reaction!

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That's right, I said it.

Now before you write me off as just another troubled AFC, hear me out

Love doesn't exist. It's fake, only caused by a chemical in your brain

If you are so inlove with someone, then why do people cheat? did the other person take this lying chemical out of their heads or something?

that's almost it. they run out of it, so they no longer feel love for their partner.

It's sad really, because all you guys who have hopes and dreams of finding the right woman to love and be with are just wasting your time.
No woman can love you, nor can you truly care for a woman

I bet for any of you Guys who say you love your wife, i could show you the hottest piece of ass imaginable. she would say

"oh baby, you can have me, but all you have to do is leave your wife and then you can have me forever"

how many of you would do it? i bet a crap-ton would

Same applies to a female who finds some handsome chode at a party while married to her husband.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AFCs don't have the required perception of reality to understand that it's just a chemical reaction, so no one can really call you one.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
There's a difference between real love and infatuation.

No not much

how many marriages have you seen go down the tubes because of lack of "thrills" basically they ran out of chemical

i thought they were in love??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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^^

Not "hate" obviously

which is what the OP is spreading

sad sad sad
 

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Kerpal said:
Isn't everything we feel just a chemical reaction?
^^ No.

Raikojo17 said:
Love doesn't exist. It's fake
I don't believe this.

Raikojo17 said:
I bet for any of you Guys who say you love your wife, i could show you the hottest piece of ass imaginable. she would say

"oh baby, you can have me, but all you have to do is leave your wife and then you can have me forever"

how many of you would do it? i bet a crap-ton would
I would chalk that up to complete abandonment of morals....of course if you have no moral center and your life objective is to do whatever feels good, then of course you would dump your wife.

Therefore all love is fake? WTH?
 

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dumbest post in the world...

their are plently of people who stay in deep love with eachother till the day they die...

once ur 70. and ur wife dies... you cant imagine loving anyone else.


stupid post. really....


i feel bad for you brah...
 

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I've been told that love is a decision...so what most people feel as love and is usually infatuation is indeed a chemical reaction. But a good couple decides to commit to each other and real love takes commitment. I am probably oversimplifying it.

My parents are a good example. They have been married for like 40 years and are still crazy for each other. At least from what I witness.

I understand this is not a very DJ'esque concept.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't know if this thread shows a great lack of understanding of chemistry or love. There are different levels/types of love, just as there are different chemical reactions.

Some chemicals cause an explosion, some will seap into your skin and bones causing a life time reaction. It's the same with love, have a strong infatuation right away, while others it takes more time.
 

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Jeez, all life is just a chemical reaction too. That doesn't mean it's not "real" or that it doesn't have value.
 
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