"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Love is Just a Chemical Reaction!

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That's right, I said it.

Now before you write me off as just another troubled AFC, hear me out

Love doesn't exist. It's fake, only caused by a chemical in your brain

If you are so inlove with someone, then why do people cheat? did the other person take this lying chemical out of their heads or something?

that's almost it. they run out of it, so they no longer feel love for their partner.

It's sad really, because all you guys who have hopes and dreams of finding the right woman to love and be with are just wasting your time.
No woman can love you, nor can you truly care for a woman

I bet for any of you Guys who say you love your wife, i could show you the hottest piece of ass imaginable. she would say

"oh baby, you can have me, but all you have to do is leave your wife and then you can have me forever"

how many of you would do it? i bet a crap-ton would

Same applies to a female who finds some handsome chode at a party while married to her husband.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AFCs don't have the required perception of reality to understand that it's just a chemical reaction, so no one can really call you one.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
There's a difference between real love and infatuation.

No not much

how many marriages have you seen go down the tubes because of lack of "thrills" basically they ran out of chemical

i thought they were in love??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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^^

Not "hate" obviously

which is what the OP is spreading

sad sad sad
 

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Kerpal said:
Isn't everything we feel just a chemical reaction?
^^ No.

Raikojo17 said:
Love doesn't exist. It's fake
I don't believe this.

Raikojo17 said:
I bet for any of you Guys who say you love your wife, i could show you the hottest piece of ass imaginable. she would say

"oh baby, you can have me, but all you have to do is leave your wife and then you can have me forever"

how many of you would do it? i bet a crap-ton would
I would chalk that up to complete abandonment of morals....of course if you have no moral center and your life objective is to do whatever feels good, then of course you would dump your wife.

Therefore all love is fake? WTH?
 

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dumbest post in the world...

their are plently of people who stay in deep love with eachother till the day they die...

once ur 70. and ur wife dies... you cant imagine loving anyone else.


stupid post. really....


i feel bad for you brah...
 

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I've been told that love is a decision...so what most people feel as love and is usually infatuation is indeed a chemical reaction. But a good couple decides to commit to each other and real love takes commitment. I am probably oversimplifying it.

My parents are a good example. They have been married for like 40 years and are still crazy for each other. At least from what I witness.

I understand this is not a very DJ'esque concept.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't know if this thread shows a great lack of understanding of chemistry or love. There are different levels/types of love, just as there are different chemical reactions.

Some chemicals cause an explosion, some will seap into your skin and bones causing a life time reaction. It's the same with love, have a strong infatuation right away, while others it takes more time.
 

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Jeez, all life is just a chemical reaction too. That doesn't mean it's not "real" or that it doesn't have value.
 
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