"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Love in the 18th century

diplomatic_lies

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One of my friends is those "Renaissance fair" types, and some of the stuff he says about love/relationships in the 18th or 19th century is pretty damned scary.

-You couldn't initiate conversation with a woman unless someone introduces the two of you
-Women couldn't hang out with guys unless they want to be seen as a slvt
-An unmarried man and woman in the same room was frowned upon
-If you're poor or come from a crap family, talking to a chick from an important family was a no-no
-On the bright side people were very sexually active, as long as nobody knows about it

(Of course, I think this is more a European thing. In America there wasn't as much class-based society)


Wondered how you guys would've DJed back then ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In 1873, the Comstock Law was passed. Named after Anthony Comstock, the Comstock Law made illegal the advertising of any sort of birth control, and it also allowed the postal service to confiscate condoms sold through the mail.
 

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i think some of that is BS because in the art of seduction he cites alot of seduction from those time periods.
 

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I just watched Dangerous Liasons. Good movie to watch based on this topic although im not exactly sure what century it was based on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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