I was listening to a Tina Turner song (I know what you're thinking) and the lyric "what's love but a secondhand emotion" got me thinking.
This is absolutely correct. People make such a big deal about women and love and people actually kill themselves because of breakups but really chances are you will go through life being "in love" with more than 1 person. Probably 2, 3 or 10 people. I'm 19 and i'm already on my third "proper" girlfriend. My stepdad told me about his relationship experiences before he met my Mother and how much heartbreak there was and although things often seemed bleak there were always other women in his life after.
So when you split up with your girlfriend and you're feeling all depressed stop and think. You probably felt like that about another woman before, and you sure as hell will again. And probably again after that. It takes time to find someone worthwhile and you may not until you're in your 40s or 50s. Plus, how do you know what you really want in a woman if you've only had one?
Anyone with plenty of experience will already know this and i'd love to read about your experiences. May also help young uns feeling like their world is falling apart because their first ever girlfriend dumped them.
This is absolutely correct. People make such a big deal about women and love and people actually kill themselves because of breakups but really chances are you will go through life being "in love" with more than 1 person. Probably 2, 3 or 10 people. I'm 19 and i'm already on my third "proper" girlfriend. My stepdad told me about his relationship experiences before he met my Mother and how much heartbreak there was and although things often seemed bleak there were always other women in his life after.
So when you split up with your girlfriend and you're feeling all depressed stop and think. You probably felt like that about another woman before, and you sure as hell will again. And probably again after that. It takes time to find someone worthwhile and you may not until you're in your 40s or 50s. Plus, how do you know what you really want in a woman if you've only had one?
Anyone with plenty of experience will already know this and i'd love to read about your experiences. May also help young uns feeling like their world is falling apart because their first ever girlfriend dumped them.
