"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Louis CK on putting a woman in her place

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ Logic

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Just because something is scripted doesn't mean there is not a lesson to be learned. I found that exchange to be pretty much on point with my own experience. (I usually don't call them c*nts, lol)

FWIW in real life Louis is a pathetic AFC and makes fun of it during his act. I still see the value of this particular sketch outside that context though. *shrugs*
 

dereklovesugly

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I honestly have been watching his show since it started and I think he's a dj. He knows all the ins and outs of the game. I'm pretty sure his show is a joke and not based on fact hence him being a comedian
 

Nexus Polaris

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I can't stand this guy. I've got friends that like him, but I've never understood why. I don't see him getting laid at all. He's got all the telltale signs of an entertainment industry AFC; he's middle-aged, he's out of shape, and he's cynical. Most people with those three qualities end up doing standup.

Not to sh1t on your post here. These are just things I've noticed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ Miquelo

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I think hes a hilarious comedian and i like what he does... however, imo he is nowhere near a DJ nor anything anyone here should aspire to being like when it comes to women or attitude :p
 
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