"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Louis CK on putting a woman in her place

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ Logic

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Just because something is scripted doesn't mean there is not a lesson to be learned. I found that exchange to be pretty much on point with my own experience. (I usually don't call them c*nts, lol)

FWIW in real life Louis is a pathetic AFC and makes fun of it during his act. I still see the value of this particular sketch outside that context though. *shrugs*
 

dereklovesugly

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I honestly have been watching his show since it started and I think he's a dj. He knows all the ins and outs of the game. I'm pretty sure his show is a joke and not based on fact hence him being a comedian
 

Nexus Polaris

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I can't stand this guy. I've got friends that like him, but I've never understood why. I don't see him getting laid at all. He's got all the telltale signs of an entertainment industry AFC; he's middle-aged, he's out of shape, and he's cynical. Most people with those three qualities end up doing standup.

Not to sh1t on your post here. These are just things I've noticed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ Miquelo

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I think hes a hilarious comedian and i like what he does... however, imo he is nowhere near a DJ nor anything anyone here should aspire to being like when it comes to women or attitude :p
 
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