lots of girls

[gongxia649]

i asked my friend to go to the mall to chek out the girls.
so we went there today and there were several attractive girls. some of them walkin alone, some of them with walkin along with their moms, and others with her female friends. I wanted to target a hottie, but unfortunately i didnt do any move and obviously so my friend. Time ran out. we just stood there and looking at the hooties go by.
I just didnt have that spark. what do you DJ do to get that spark to trigger yourself to go have a small-talk to the hotties? should i approach to the UG first or what?

 

[bobbob]

Heya ... I know exactly how you feel.


The truth is, you're not going to have that spark (which is really confidence and enthusiasm) right away, because you're too nervous and have too much self-doubt.


You gotta build momentum by doing CAs first. After a few, you'll start feeling better about yourself, and with enough, you will get that spark.

But you have to do a lot of approaches, and its more effective if its over a short time frame. If you spread them out over too many days, it lowers its effectiveness.

good luck

 

[gongxia649]

Originally posted by bobbob
Heya ... I know exactly how you feel.


The truth is, you're not going to have that spark (which is really confidence and enthusiasm) right away, because you're too nervous and have too much self-doubt.


You gotta build momentum by doing CAs first. After a few, you'll start feeling better about yourself, and with enough, you will get that spark.

But you have to do a lot of approaches, and its more effective if its over a short time frame. If you spread them out over too many days, it lowers its effectiveness.

good luck

what does CAs stand for?

 

[Vibe]

Originally posted by gongxia649
what does CAs stand for?

Cold Approaches

~Vibe~