Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Lost My Cool & She Liked It?

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I have been chatting up these two ladies for months now and a plan to meet finally pulled through. I had a lacrosse game near where they lived, I asked them to come and sure enough they did and were excited about finally meeting me. I'm captain of my team so I proceeded to the floor first and ran a few laps with my team, I saw the two girls staring at me with a huge smilies. The game was going alright, pretty close, I wasn't doing much. Then while I was on the floor a teammate of mine was involved in an altercation. The referee told the remaining players on the floor to go to the bench, so I did. However one of my players was only halfway to the bench and was making the official upset so I grabbed him and took him to the bench. After the fight was over, the referee made a shocking call, exspelling myself and another teammate from the game, for what? Nothing! I was fumid, yelling and banging on the glass, almost animalistic I then threw a garbage can, made a huge scene. They two girls left and I thought to myself, I'm such an idiot for not keeping my cool, however when I got home and logged on to my computer one of the girls, whom I have had short conversations with, was talking to me non stop, about everything, the game, her fake nails haha. It was maddness and I had total control of this conversation it was a truly great conversation, which shocks me because I thought my antics left a bad impression, have any ideas/comments?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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uh...yeah...what the hell are you doing talking to her on the computer? It's called a phone or even better talking to her in person.
 

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yeh and lacrosse? mate go play some footy.
 

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Originally posted by Noob
if any of you watched big brother, did any one notice when Exactly Saskia felt attracted to Maxwell...

it was when he almost had a fight with Science, when science through a bin at maxwell by accident, and then maxwell got pissed off and threatened him... an then saskia went in to the diary room n told big brother how much she loved maxwell
Wasn't saskia a tranny?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Wasn't saskia a tranny?
Yeah,.........PROBABLY.

WHO KNOWS............YOU CANT TELL.

WELL MAXI...(W.E) GOT A TRANNY SURPRISE.
 
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