"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lost My Cool & She Liked It?

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I have been chatting up these two ladies for months now and a plan to meet finally pulled through. I had a lacrosse game near where they lived, I asked them to come and sure enough they did and were excited about finally meeting me. I'm captain of my team so I proceeded to the floor first and ran a few laps with my team, I saw the two girls staring at me with a huge smilies. The game was going alright, pretty close, I wasn't doing much. Then while I was on the floor a teammate of mine was involved in an altercation. The referee told the remaining players on the floor to go to the bench, so I did. However one of my players was only halfway to the bench and was making the official upset so I grabbed him and took him to the bench. After the fight was over, the referee made a shocking call, exspelling myself and another teammate from the game, for what? Nothing! I was fumid, yelling and banging on the glass, almost animalistic I then threw a garbage can, made a huge scene. They two girls left and I thought to myself, I'm such an idiot for not keeping my cool, however when I got home and logged on to my computer one of the girls, whom I have had short conversations with, was talking to me non stop, about everything, the game, her fake nails haha. It was maddness and I had total control of this conversation it was a truly great conversation, which shocks me because I thought my antics left a bad impression, have any ideas/comments?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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uh...yeah...what the hell are you doing talking to her on the computer? It's called a phone or even better talking to her in person.
 

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yeh and lacrosse? mate go play some footy.
 

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Originally posted by Noob
if any of you watched big brother, did any one notice when Exactly Saskia felt attracted to Maxwell...

it was when he almost had a fight with Science, when science through a bin at maxwell by accident, and then maxwell got pissed off and threatened him... an then saskia went in to the diary room n told big brother how much she loved maxwell
Wasn't saskia a tranny?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Wasn't saskia a tranny?
Yeah,.........PROBABLY.

WHO KNOWS............YOU CANT TELL.

WELL MAXI...(W.E) GOT A TRANNY SURPRISE.
 
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