I have been chatting up these two ladies for months now and a plan to meet finally pulled through. I had a lacrosse game near where they lived, I asked them to come and sure enough they did and were excited about finally meeting me. I'm captain of my team so I proceeded to the floor first and ran a few laps with my team, I saw the two girls staring at me with a huge smilies. The game was going alright, pretty close, I wasn't doing much. Then while I was on the floor a teammate of mine was involved in an altercation. The referee told the remaining players on the floor to go to the bench, so I did. However one of my players was only halfway to the bench and was making the official upset so I grabbed him and took him to the bench. After the fight was over, the referee made a shocking call, exspelling myself and another teammate from the game, for what? Nothing! I was fumid, yelling and banging on the glass, almost animalistic I then threw a garbage can, made a huge scene. They two girls left and I thought to myself, I'm such an idiot for not keeping my cool, however when I got home and logged on to my computer one of the girls, whom I have had short conversations with, was talking to me non stop, about everything, the game, her fake nails haha. It was maddness and I had total control of this conversation it was a truly great conversation, which shocks me because I thought my antics left a bad impression, have any ideas/comments?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lost My Cool & She Liked It?
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