Lost My C&F?

[HelmChef]

So here is the deal. 2 Months ago i met the woman of my dreams. I was super confident, funny and didn't have a worry in the world. Now I just can't seem to make her laugh as much as I used too and i would really hate to lose this chick. Any Help would be Great.

Thanks

 

[Razor Sharp]

Congrats, you've proceeded to the area of relationships least covered on this site - what to do when you actually GET the girl.

The simple answer is all of the things you did to get her

2 months is just enough time to let your guard down and get comfortable because you think she's already in the bag. What most men fail to grasp is that the first 3 months are the most important. Not only do they set the frame of how you relate to each other, but in this time she is also observing and tearing apart your every move during this time to determine if you have what it takes to meet her needs.

What she is searching for is congruence, and if you were acting the part throughout the seduction, you will fail as soon as the disguise is revealed.

Of course maybe she is just depressed for another reason? Does she laugh at anyone else's jokes? Do you spend a lot of time with her? A lot of variables can affect the situation.

 

[goodfoot]

I had a problem like this at one point. I had become "predictably unpredictable." She may feel like she's hearing the same jokes over and over. Try switching things up.