"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lost My C&F?

HelmChef

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So here is the deal. 2 Months ago i met the woman of my dreams. I was super confident, funny and didn't have a worry in the world. Now I just can't seem to make her laugh as much as I used too and i would really hate to lose this chick. Any Help would be Great.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Razor Sharp

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Congrats, you've proceeded to the area of relationships least covered on this site - what to do when you actually GET the girl.

The simple answer is all of the things you did to get her

2 months is just enough time to let your guard down and get comfortable because you think she's already in the bag. What most men fail to grasp is that the first 3 months are the most important. Not only do they set the frame of how you relate to each other, but in this time she is also observing and tearing apart your every move during this time to determine if you have what it takes to meet her needs.

What she is searching for is congruence, and if you were acting the part throughout the seduction, you will fail as soon as the disguise is revealed.

Of course maybe she is just depressed for another reason? Does she laugh at anyone else's jokes? Do you spend a lot of time with her? A lot of variables can affect the situation.
 

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I had a problem like this at one point. I had become "predictably unpredictable." She may feel like she's hearing the same jokes over and over. Try switching things up.
 
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