"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lost desire for sex

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Maybe when they say if you don't use it you loose it-it is partly true. I have'nt wacked off in about a week now and am still not horny for girls, it's not like i've had sex with many girls and got tired of it. Am still a virgin :eek:

Am actually started working in the clubs 3-4 nights a week as a Photographer, alot of people (girls) approach me but most of the time I just don't care to game them and just want to work but at the end of the night am pissed at myself for not getting laid but how can I force myself when I don't even want it?

It's weird, ever since I became the nightclub photographer and opportunity to game girls are so much easier now, this made me less motivated to approach. Could this be because the chase is more fulfilling then the catch? this is really annoying, I want to feel like a horny teenagers again. I've list an outline of all the possible reasons.

1. Too much porn, am now jaded to less then an HB8
2. Not enough exercise. I lost 20 lbs ever since I moved out and havnt worked out since
3. Stress level is high with all the work
4. Sleep pattern is completely messed up with all the clubbing
5. Getting old, naturally loose sex drive
6. The focus isn't on girls but on work

Has this ever happen to anyone? and how do you overcome it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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swifTy

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lost desire for sex?

awesome your free then man. free free free. know what i mean?? so... wouldn't worry about that.

DO fix the stress tho and DO get in shape and DO improve your sleep.

keep focusin on career.

:D
 

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agreed. I wish porn had never existed. It can really screw with your perception. I had watched so much porn before i lost my virginity at age 18, that i knew how to do everything already lol... there was no mystery or fun, and when the sex doesnt live up to a scripted, edited movie..it can really be disappointing.
 

Nip/Tuck

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Rashad said:
agreed. I wish porn had never existed. It can really screw with your perception. I had watched so much porn before i lost my virginity at age 18, that i knew how to do everything already lol... there was no mystery or fun, and when the sex doesnt live up to a scripted, edited movie..it can really be disappointing.
Dude porn takes HOURS to film... most porn are cut and edited to "fit" into one movie. Who cares you guys are such "nice guys" I don't really care for sex as long as I get what I want. Meaning I don't really care if the girl hasn't orgasmed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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