"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lost desire for sex

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Maybe when they say if you don't use it you loose it-it is partly true. I have'nt wacked off in about a week now and am still not horny for girls, it's not like i've had sex with many girls and got tired of it. Am still a virgin :eek:

Am actually started working in the clubs 3-4 nights a week as a Photographer, alot of people (girls) approach me but most of the time I just don't care to game them and just want to work but at the end of the night am pissed at myself for not getting laid but how can I force myself when I don't even want it?

It's weird, ever since I became the nightclub photographer and opportunity to game girls are so much easier now, this made me less motivated to approach. Could this be because the chase is more fulfilling then the catch? this is really annoying, I want to feel like a horny teenagers again. I've list an outline of all the possible reasons.

1. Too much porn, am now jaded to less then an HB8
2. Not enough exercise. I lost 20 lbs ever since I moved out and havnt worked out since
3. Stress level is high with all the work
4. Sleep pattern is completely messed up with all the clubbing
5. Getting old, naturally loose sex drive
6. The focus isn't on girls but on work

Has this ever happen to anyone? and how do you overcome it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lost desire for sex?

awesome your free then man. free free free. know what i mean?? so... wouldn't worry about that.

DO fix the stress tho and DO get in shape and DO improve your sleep.

keep focusin on career.

:D
 

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agreed. I wish porn had never existed. It can really screw with your perception. I had watched so much porn before i lost my virginity at age 18, that i knew how to do everything already lol... there was no mystery or fun, and when the sex doesnt live up to a scripted, edited movie..it can really be disappointing.
 

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Rashad said:
agreed. I wish porn had never existed. It can really screw with your perception. I had watched so much porn before i lost my virginity at age 18, that i knew how to do everything already lol... there was no mystery or fun, and when the sex doesnt live up to a scripted, edited movie..it can really be disappointing.
Dude porn takes HOURS to film... most porn are cut and edited to "fit" into one movie. Who cares you guys are such "nice guys" I don't really care for sex as long as I get what I want. Meaning I don't really care if the girl hasn't orgasmed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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