"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lost desire for sex

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Maybe when they say if you don't use it you loose it-it is partly true. I have'nt wacked off in about a week now and am still not horny for girls, it's not like i've had sex with many girls and got tired of it. Am still a virgin :eek:

Am actually started working in the clubs 3-4 nights a week as a Photographer, alot of people (girls) approach me but most of the time I just don't care to game them and just want to work but at the end of the night am pissed at myself for not getting laid but how can I force myself when I don't even want it?

It's weird, ever since I became the nightclub photographer and opportunity to game girls are so much easier now, this made me less motivated to approach. Could this be because the chase is more fulfilling then the catch? this is really annoying, I want to feel like a horny teenagers again. I've list an outline of all the possible reasons.

1. Too much porn, am now jaded to less then an HB8
2. Not enough exercise. I lost 20 lbs ever since I moved out and havnt worked out since
3. Stress level is high with all the work
4. Sleep pattern is completely messed up with all the clubbing
5. Getting old, naturally loose sex drive
6. The focus isn't on girls but on work

Has this ever happen to anyone? and how do you overcome it?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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swifTy

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lost desire for sex?

awesome your free then man. free free free. know what i mean?? so... wouldn't worry about that.

DO fix the stress tho and DO get in shape and DO improve your sleep.

keep focusin on career.

:D
 

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agreed. I wish porn had never existed. It can really screw with your perception. I had watched so much porn before i lost my virginity at age 18, that i knew how to do everything already lol... there was no mystery or fun, and when the sex doesnt live up to a scripted, edited movie..it can really be disappointing.
 

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Rashad said:
agreed. I wish porn had never existed. It can really screw with your perception. I had watched so much porn before i lost my virginity at age 18, that i knew how to do everything already lol... there was no mystery or fun, and when the sex doesnt live up to a scripted, edited movie..it can really be disappointing.
Dude porn takes HOURS to film... most porn are cut and edited to "fit" into one movie. Who cares you guys are such "nice guys" I don't really care for sex as long as I get what I want. Meaning I don't really care if the girl hasn't orgasmed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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