"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lost desire for sex

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Maybe when they say if you don't use it you loose it-it is partly true. I have'nt wacked off in about a week now and am still not horny for girls, it's not like i've had sex with many girls and got tired of it. Am still a virgin :eek:

Am actually started working in the clubs 3-4 nights a week as a Photographer, alot of people (girls) approach me but most of the time I just don't care to game them and just want to work but at the end of the night am pissed at myself for not getting laid but how can I force myself when I don't even want it?

It's weird, ever since I became the nightclub photographer and opportunity to game girls are so much easier now, this made me less motivated to approach. Could this be because the chase is more fulfilling then the catch? this is really annoying, I want to feel like a horny teenagers again. I've list an outline of all the possible reasons.

1. Too much porn, am now jaded to less then an HB8
2. Not enough exercise. I lost 20 lbs ever since I moved out and havnt worked out since
3. Stress level is high with all the work
4. Sleep pattern is completely messed up with all the clubbing
5. Getting old, naturally loose sex drive
6. The focus isn't on girls but on work

Has this ever happen to anyone? and how do you overcome it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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swifTy

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lost desire for sex?

awesome your free then man. free free free. know what i mean?? so... wouldn't worry about that.

DO fix the stress tho and DO get in shape and DO improve your sleep.

keep focusin on career.

:D
 

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agreed. I wish porn had never existed. It can really screw with your perception. I had watched so much porn before i lost my virginity at age 18, that i knew how to do everything already lol... there was no mystery or fun, and when the sex doesnt live up to a scripted, edited movie..it can really be disappointing.
 

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Rashad said:
agreed. I wish porn had never existed. It can really screw with your perception. I had watched so much porn before i lost my virginity at age 18, that i knew how to do everything already lol... there was no mystery or fun, and when the sex doesnt live up to a scripted, edited movie..it can really be disappointing.
Dude porn takes HOURS to film... most porn are cut and edited to "fit" into one movie. Who cares you guys are such "nice guys" I don't really care for sex as long as I get what I want. Meaning I don't really care if the girl hasn't orgasmed.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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