"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Loss of sensitivity- help needed

Lozboss

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hey guys,

Wanted some advice. I'm really suffering.

I seem to have lost a lot of sensitivity in my penis (probably from daily masturbation after my break up)

So much so that I find it hard to *** during vaginal sex, it just doesn't stimulate me enough.

How do I get it back? Is it a case of just stopping with the porn and masturbation and only using my **** when it's in a girl?

I'd appreciate any advice on solving this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Dares Win

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I think the mental problem is even bigger than the physical one, quit porn even when it comes of just having a look with no intention to fap.

It really fvcks up your brain in terms of neurotrasmitters, same circuit of many drugs which involve the dopamine system.

Sensitivity is not totally related to perception in that particular location but perception in the overall system, think of taking a pill which works on your brain and you lose sensitivity to pain in other districts.
 

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thanks Guys,

I'm planning on 30 days off masturbation and porn and see where we go from there.
 

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I don't mean to advertise, but I got here through the MattersOfSize forum a while ago. Though I don't use that site anymore, I do recall a lot of men asking for help regarding this issue. If you really want help, I'd look there or even make a thread. Here we're offering mental solutions, but they'll offer physical ones. I do agree with everyone here and think that you should cut porn and masturbation entirely. Good luck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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marmel75

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Why is that a bad thing? You should be able to last forever. There are way too many 3 pump chumps as it is.
 
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How old are you? any blood circulation problems? ever passed any painful kidney stones? I've had such problems when I didn't really want the woman anymore, so it CAN be a "head problem".
 

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No health problems Prison,

Certainly not a case of not 'wanting' them.

If I'm honest it's a mix of over indulgence in Porn and masturbation (that is too hard/fast)
 

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as everyone else stated give up the porn and masturbation for life honestly, it is not needed when you can do all those things with real girls. I had similar issues but what helped the physical aspect of it was cocoa butter, just apply a generous amount of cocoa butter all over your member 2 - 3 times a day, don't grip it too hard when you do this, be gentle with it. This will help because cocoa butter has vitamin E and it's good for regenerating skin and damaged nerves, in a few weeks time of application you will definitley feel the difference.
 
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