"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Loss of sensitivity- help needed

Lozboss

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hey guys,

Wanted some advice. I'm really suffering.

I seem to have lost a lot of sensitivity in my penis (probably from daily masturbation after my break up)

So much so that I find it hard to *** during vaginal sex, it just doesn't stimulate me enough.

How do I get it back? Is it a case of just stopping with the porn and masturbation and only using my **** when it's in a girl?

I'd appreciate any advice on solving this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who Dares Win

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I think the mental problem is even bigger than the physical one, quit porn even when it comes of just having a look with no intention to fap.

It really fvcks up your brain in terms of neurotrasmitters, same circuit of many drugs which involve the dopamine system.

Sensitivity is not totally related to perception in that particular location but perception in the overall system, think of taking a pill which works on your brain and you lose sensitivity to pain in other districts.
 

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thanks Guys,

I'm planning on 30 days off masturbation and porn and see where we go from there.
 

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I don't mean to advertise, but I got here through the MattersOfSize forum a while ago. Though I don't use that site anymore, I do recall a lot of men asking for help regarding this issue. If you really want help, I'd look there or even make a thread. Here we're offering mental solutions, but they'll offer physical ones. I do agree with everyone here and think that you should cut porn and masturbation entirely. Good luck.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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marmel75

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Why is that a bad thing? You should be able to last forever. There are way too many 3 pump chumps as it is.
 
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How old are you? any blood circulation problems? ever passed any painful kidney stones? I've had such problems when I didn't really want the woman anymore, so it CAN be a "head problem".
 

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No health problems Prison,

Certainly not a case of not 'wanting' them.

If I'm honest it's a mix of over indulgence in Porn and masturbation (that is too hard/fast)
 

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as everyone else stated give up the porn and masturbation for life honestly, it is not needed when you can do all those things with real girls. I had similar issues but what helped the physical aspect of it was cocoa butter, just apply a generous amount of cocoa butter all over your member 2 - 3 times a day, don't grip it too hard when you do this, be gentle with it. This will help because cocoa butter has vitamin E and it's good for regenerating skin and damaged nerves, in a few weeks time of application you will definitley feel the difference.
 
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