Loss of interest

[WhitePimp]

Lately I just havent been interested in girls at all really. Not in a gay way, just that I feel like I have absolutely no time or desire to even approach and try to get anything started. I had a good run going this summer but now I seem to be losing some of my nerve and skill when it comes to approaching. Has this happened to anyone here? I am busy with a lot of my own stuff which is probably the reason why and a good thing on top of that but I dont want to have all my nerve leaving me when I'm ready to get back into approaching. Any ideas?

 

[the_great_gaia]

you don't anything to worry about.

What you're doing now is basically something a "successful" DJ goes thru. Girls aren't the main priority in your life, because if they were, you'd be no DJ. The only type of people who puts girls number ONE in their life/ priorities are desperate, nice, AFCs. You going thru this right now is only showing that you are no AFC, but a DJ. And this way, girls will more than likely flock you now.

Anything will run from you if you chase it.

 

[buckwheat18]

Wow, you described exactly what I have been feeling like lately. I've just been doing my own thing right now, with finding a better job. I just don't have the time of day to worry about women. I just figure when I want a female companion or whatever i'll know what to do.

 

[Sirducer]

Originally posted by WhitePimp
Lately I just havent been interested in girls at all really. Not in a gay way, just that I feel like I have absolutely no time or desire to even approach and try to get anything started. I had a good run going this summer but now I seem to be losing some of my nerve and skill when it comes to approaching. Has this happened to anyone here? I am busy with a lot of my own stuff which is probably the reason why and a good thing on top of that but I dont want to have all my nerve leaving me when I'm ready to get back into approaching. Any ideas?

Stop masterbating!
The hand is banned.

 

[Fox800]

I know what you feel, I'm going through the exact same thing. I thought it might be low testosterone levels, but I've been working out and my energy levels are as high as they've ever been. I'm just not as turned on by girls/porn as much...I mean I'll register "she's hot/cute/attractive" but it doesn't make me pop wood like a hot girl used to...