"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Losing My Virginity
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
2. foreplay! don't rush into penetration if you want it to be fun
3. be hard
4. if u dont know where the hole is, let her place it in for you while you keep a poker face (act as if you knew)
5. dont c*m too fast ... if you feel it coming, slow down and make the whole experience longer
6. throw in a joke if you feel the atmosphere is too tense: i dunno, when u go looking for condoms and need to get off her for a second, act as if you are confused about which way to go and where to place your hands, and place your hands repeatedly on her boobs and crotch by excusing yourself and seeming like you didnt mean to do that. make the confusion last for 30 seconds or so, and if done properly, she might find that amusing, while you get some good contact with her nicer body parts
Most importantly, try to enjoy and dont think about performing and all that stressfull stuff. Enjoy and report back!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
diablo
Master Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=152446&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
Oh, and congratulations.
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