"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Losing my virginity

Behindmyscreen

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Ok so I’m scared and this is a very awkward situation... I’m a virgin, and I just made a friend a few months ago. He’s older then me by 3 years and very- experienced in sex stuff.

I’ve been wanting to get my virginity over with for awhile now. I just haven’t had anyone to do it with. He has offered to casually hookup.

I don’t want it to be awkward afterwards but he says it won’t be, good idea or bad idea?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lamath

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Troll?


Are you a women?

If so not sure you are at the right spot


Just incase it is nota a troll you need women advice @BeExcellent @AJ84 @sazc
 
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Spaz

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If you're giving up ur @ss virginity to another man then please search Google and find the forum for faggots.

Here's not the place.
 
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